Sunday, March 20, 2011

We Have Arrived

We arrived in Pittsburgh. We have been planning and preparing for this week for so long that I almost can't believe it is actually here. It is hard to comprehend - we are just going through the motions at times, but I know the Lord (and everyone's prayers) are carrying us through. It is almost impossible to prepare for something like this - my almost 8 month old son's liver transplant, my donor surgery, and being 500 miles away from Amelia, but somehow we have made it. "Somehow" has had alot to do with prayer, no doubt, and my husband BJ's constant effort and planning...he has thought of everything. He packed the car perfectly tight, like Tetris pieces placed strategically together.
We didn't stop for a second Saturday, probably so we would not have to think about why we were packing or what we were preparing to do. It has been quite emotional getting here, to say the least. One of the hardest parts so far has been leaving Amelia. BJ and I have decided it is probably harder on us than her though. She was so excited to go play with her cousins that when we told her, "Mommy and Daddy are going to Pittsburgh" she got so upset because she thought she was having to go. Still, waving goodbye to her in my sister's van was sad, but I know she is in good hands.
The ride to Pittsburgh was relatively uneventful. Thatcher slept most of the way and still slept decently during the night...thank goodness, we couldn't believe it! BJ's mom rode with my parents who followed behind us. We made a few stops to eat in Cincinnatti and Columbus and arrived here about 7pm. We are greatful and relieved that we got a room (1407) in the Ronald McDonald house because it is so convenient to Children's Hospital.
Today has been more eventful in preparation for our surgeries. I signed consent forms and was examined at the adult hospital, Montefiore, at noon. Thatcher was admitted at 2 eastern to room 714. He will get blood work and they will start an IV this evening with a few preliminary meds in preparation for surgery. He can't eat after 10pm and will be wheeled back to surgery around 6am. BJ and I will stay with Thatcher during this time. I will have to leave at some point to report to Montefiore at 5am.
So many folks have texted, emailed, and FB'd supportive messages. Please know we are reading them and smiling! Thanks for thinking of us and for sending up your prayers. The doctors and medical staff seem so knowledgeable that it brings us alot of comfort that things will be ok. It is in the good Lord's hands...thank goodness!

4 comments:

  1. As I type this you are both in surgery and please know that I am thinking of you all constantly and praying so hard! Love you guys!

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  2. I prayed all the way to work this morning, knowing that you are both in surgery. I started to text or call BJ or your Mom, but decided to just let things be, as I'm sure they are overwhelmed.
    Can't wait to hear that you are both out of surgery and everything is perfect!

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  3. Jessie/B.J. We are praying special prayers today for successful surgeries, for your caregivers (both Jessie's and Thatcher's), for Amelia, for your comfort in knowing that this has always been in God's hands and remains there. This is the perfect time for this to happen. Springtime - the renewing of everything even Thatcher's future! We all look forward to hearing amazing recovery stories!!! In Prayer, Jeannie

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  4. I am praying for you all today and am looking forward to wonderful news soon - I hope your mom or dad will let us know, or maybe Erica can post on the blog? Thatcher will be the healthiest, happiest little boy ever and you all will start to get some wonderful nights of worry-free sleep soon. I loved what Jeannie wrote - spring is a beautiful time of year, and what a great time of year for Thatcher's new, healthy life to begin - a great time of renewal, rebirth, and rejoicing! We continue to be in prayer for you all .... Larry and Cheryl

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